Relationships and conflicts, imprints from the family or biography.
“Disappointment is the end of illusion.”.
You conclude from yourself to others and are disappointed when others do not behave according to your expectations?
In coaching you become much more aware of who you are and what you can expect from others.
You will be able to assess the behaviour and needs of others more easily in advance and thus win others over for yourself and your goals. You learn to assert your needs elegantly and confidently and to communicate in such a way that the bait tastes good to the fish instead of the angler or how others bite at your fishing line.
This enables you to resolve conflicts constructively and more easily, or to proactively avoid them if necessary.
Relationships with yourself and other people were predominantly formed in childhood and biography and the resulting attitudes and behaviours later become almost automatic habits.
Through coaching you become aware of your individual patterns and can control them yourself if necessary. As a result, others can no longer “push your buttons” either, and you become freer to be yourself and to fully develop your potential even in contact with others.
You learn to better understand your own feelings as well as those of others and to transform them as needed.
To do this, your relationship with yourself is essential first. For only those who are at home within themselves can receive visitors. The relationship with others often reflects the relationship with yourself.
As a coach, I stand by your side and support you through reflection, feedback as well as concrete impulses, suggestions, and methods to improve your contact with yourself and your environment.
Your past cannot be changed and has shaped you. However, from today you can deal with it differently through coaching with a new awareness.
Even if you do not want to or can’t have contact with individuals from your family or your past anymore, you will learn to be at peace inside and let go of the past as well as your unfulfilled expectations towards others. Because if you are still angry and cannot forgive, it is like drinking poison expecting the other person to die from it.
Your relationship with yourself, your family and your environment will increasingly improve.
You will experience a nurturing and fulfilling relationship with yourself and others.
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